How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 10:02
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
That's it for today.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Why do men say women hit the wall at 24?
Does not procrastinate.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
What thing happened to you as a child that you haven’t let go of to this day?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Has a cop ever said something to you which was completely unexpected?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What is the story of how you met your spouse?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Ask yourself:
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
What exactly is female squirting? Is it only urine or a combination of liquids?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Procrastinates a lot.
Who has experienced what they called a happy accident (bestiality)?
Do not set goals—set systems.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Why do some men like older women?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
If there is an abandoned house with no owner, can I live in it?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Making more friends is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
What I need from you?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.